STAY HAPPY!
Peace be upon you to all my readers,
Alhamdulillah for another day and feeling bless to see again
all the people that I loved,
I was having a great deep conversation last night and it is
such a memorable things. I appreciate it. Thank you for your time fav person!
Right now, I’m on road to final exam. May Allah ease me and
all of my friends that will face this upcoming final Exam, pray for us <3.
Code : Black Espresso
I was feeling down for past few days and after I spend my
own time at the café yesterday. I give myself a break time, a break from my own
thoughts. I just have a thought on all the reasons I held on for so long after I
went through everything. Suddenly, I just feel like something has knocked my
head and I realised that I should go on with my life right now and I need to
continue back what I was doing before this.
Now I’m back with a positive SYASYA
and this post is just a sharing thingy for you guys so if any of you going
through the same situation like me then you should read this post. Probably it
may be suit for you.
Why need to stay sad?
When you can be happy for all time.
Right?!
Here is a little bit reminder or sharing moment for all
people out there who are currently need something to stay positive or if you
feel like giving up with your life right now. It’s okay to stay sad for the
moment, sometimes we will feel down, regret on what we were doing before this and
sometimes we will have that feeling of giving up with whatever we do that time.
But before that, remember back all the
reasons you held on for so long. How hard you went through everything to be at
your stage right now.
When some things go wrong, take a moment to be thankful
for the many more things that are still going right. Give yourself a chance,
give your wounds a chance to show you something beyond this sadness. Take your
time and take a break from everything. Have a rest for the moment and remain
silent. Think back all the things you had done, all the people around you who
still loves you and care for you.
When you take the time to actually listen,
with humility, to what people have to say, it’s amazing what you can learn.
As
long as you have Allah you have no reason to lose hope or give up.
May Allah ease the pain of every heart that’s suffering in
silence.
Being positive doesn’t mean you choose to ignore life’s
problems. It means you trust that Allah will find a way out if you do your
best. No matter how bad the situation may be, there are always other people who
have it worse. Be grateful. Put more trust to Allah. Trust Allah. You are just
one part of the puzzle. The bigger picture tells a different story and once it’s
complete, it all make sense. Allah knows what we feel inside.
“And Allah is with you wherever you’re” (54:7)
How to stay happy?
1.
You need
to choose to be happy, first! Train your mind to see the good in
everything. Positivity is a choice. The happiness of your life depends on the
quality of your thoughts.
2.
Forgive yourself.
Forgive all those things that hurt you. Forgive all the people around you,
either you make the wrong deed or others. Apologizing does not always mean you
are wrong, it just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.
3.
Listen to
yourself. Listen to how you talk to yourself. Your inner self need you more
than others. When you love yourself, you know you’re good enough that you have
to stop talking to yourself in negative terms. Loving yourself means accepting
that you’re stuck inside your own flaw.
4.
Accept
yourself for who you are. Accept everything you have right now. When you
love yourself, you try to be the best person you can be in the body that you
have, and that’s as much as you can do. Appreciate every single thing that you
do. Be grateful for everything you have in your life right now. Accept your
past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without
fear.
5.
Eliminate
all those toxic people in your place. What did I mean by toxic people is remove
all those people who always underestimate you and who always give you negative
vibes. All the people who always talk bad things about you. They all are the
toxic in your life, there’s no reason to hold on them.
6.
Surround
yourself with a positive and good surrounding. The more positive people
around you, automatically you will get influenced to stay positive and BE HAPPY
too! Always see the positive things in every negative events.
7.
Give
yourself a space. Don’t limit your own limit. Don’t underestimate your own power
and your own abilities.
8.
Reward yourself.
9.
Plan for
your future success.
10.
Change
the way you think and say towards bad things and turn it into a positive side. For
example like, change “I think I can do it” to “I need to make it success”.
Always be good to everyone around you no matter how bad they treat you.
There are lot of things to do on how to stay happy, this is
just part of it. Actually, to be happy is a choice not a result. Nothing will
make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy
unless you decide to be Happy. Your Happiness will not come to you. It can only
come from you. Happiness comes when you stop complaining about the troubles you
have, and thank Allah for the trouble you don’t have.
I strongly believes everything that happens in our lives by
the will of Allah is to teach us a lesson; either make us stronger or humble
us. Because, Allah doesn’t test us for no reason. Believe me patience will lead
you to your true Happiness.
Why need to be sad? When there is a lot of things
to be happy with.
Stay happy peeps!
Allah also has a purpose for your pain, a reason for your
struggles and a reward for your faithfulness. Don’t give up!
When you have faith in Allah, He will show you a way.
Allah
will make a way out for you. Be patient and keep praying.
No one loves you more than Allah,
No one knows you more than Allah,
No one benefits you more than Allah,
No one understands you more than Allah.
Whatever challenge you’re currently facing, it’s no match
for Allah. Keep your faith. Allah will always deliver the best for you.
That’s all what I can share to every each of you, stay
positive and don’t forget that your vibe attract your tribe. Now I need to
continue focus on mya ssig
See you again on my next posts!
FI hifzillah everyone.
-FS
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